Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People

Angella Nazarian: Visionary women is a volunteer run organization And I know that every single person who is here is giving their time to one organization or another and the fact that you have nine million volunteers and you were talking about the relationship between
volunteerism and willingness And that it’s through willingness that you
uplift your consciousness, if I’m reporting you correctly, or I’m understanding it. In some ways, talking about how it could be a doorway to becoming a bigger person than who you are. Sadhguru: See.. Before we come to women, first thing is visionary. What a vision means is, say everybody has desires. Desire is an incremental way of enhancing our life. Today you desire, I must have a home, tomorrow your desire, I must have this money, tomorrow, you desire something else. These are incremental ways of
arranging and rearranging our lives which are needed to do a few things. When you say I’m a visionary, what you’re saying is, I have a larger desire which is not about just incremental improvement of my life. Desire is about me, always. Vision is an all-inclusive process. So this itself is a phenomenal thing,
if people instead of having desires, if they have a vision. Vision is always all-inclusive. Desire is personal. Desire leads to incremental changes and improvements. Vision can transform the whole situation. (Music) (Laughter) I like music. (Laughter) So, about willingness,
because you said you’re a volunteer. To be a volunteer, a volunteer means somebody who is doing something willingly, right? There’s no other compulsion. There are no financial compulsions.
There are no social compulsions. There is no something else. You want to do something willingly. So when you’re a willing participant right now,
you’re a volunteer. I’m asking all of you, right now, are you compelled to be here or are you here voluntarily? Audience : Voluntarily Sadhguru: Oh, thank you Because I have spoken to conscripted people also. I have spoken in the prisons,
I have spoken in many places. So you are here willingly. You are doing something willingly,
is the fundamental of your joy, isn’t it so? Hello? However simple or stupid or idiotic activity it is, ‘I am doing something willingly’
makes a world of difference, isn’t it so? Hello? The difference between heaven and hell is just this. You are doing something willingly, that’s your heaven. You are doing something unwillingly, that’s your hell. Hmm? We have already taken on attitudes
what we like and what we don’t like. I like this person, I don’t like this person. Now with this person, I will do things willingly. With this person, I will do things unwillingly. This may be two people, two aspects of life,
two communities, two nations, two.. many things. This I will do willingly, this I do unwillingly. This means, I have decided in my mind,
this is good, this is bad. When I hear, even on national news channels, good guys and bad guys .. it just.. Once you have this kind of thing,
you are going to be disastrous to the planet. It’s just a question of time. The moment you decide this is a good person,
this is a bad person, this is gone deep into American society. No. There are no good people and bad people. Everybody is oscillating between the two. If you create a very pleasant wonderful atmosphere,
everybody behaves wonderfully. If you create an unpleasant atmosphere,
a whole lot of people act nasty. Yes or no? There are joyful people and miserable people, but
there are no good people and bad people. (Applause) The moment we think we are good, we are entitled to destroy the bad, isn’t it? Oh, we’ve been destroying a lot of people for a long time, time to stop that. Because.. human beings are in different
levels of experience and understanding. Variety of people. Anybody who’s not like you is obviously bad, isn’t it? Isn’t it so? Those who are not like me must be bad people. Because the basis of goodness and what you think is goodness is decided by you. No, you have no business to do that. Willing means this. I’m just willing. I’m a hundred percent yes to life. I am not yes to this one, no to this one. No, I am just yes and yes to life. If you are a hundred percent yes to life,
you are a volunteer. You have become a willing life. You have become so willing that
you have no will of your own. People ask me
‘Sadhguru, how do you operate with all these people, all kinds of horrible questions they’re asking,
they’re doing this, they’re doing that?’ I said ‘My life is not about them. It’s about me’ It’s about how I am. This is about me. It doesn’t matter how they are, that’s their choice. But how I am is my choice. This is my way. No matter what they do. I’m like this. Because I have not given that freedom to anybody
that somebody can freak me, somebody can make me angry, somebody can make me happy, somebody can make me unhappy. These privileges I kept to myself. It’s time you do that too. Because if somebody else can decide what can happen within you right now, isn’t this the ultimate slavery? Hmm? Isn’t this? Someone else can decide what should happen within you, what happens around you of course,
so many people decide, hmm? What happens around us is not hundred percent ours, but what happens within me must be my making,
isn’t it? Right now, just about anybody can freak anybody
because they are not volunteers. They are unwilling. Volunteering means you have no will of your own. You can do whatever is needed. You know, we are a volunteer organization, this means all kinds of people .. (Laughs) Most of them are not qualified
for the jobs that they’re doing. (Laughter) And I cannot fire them because they’re volunteers. (Laughter) Angella Nazarian: It’s true. Sadhguru: So people keep coming up to me on a daily basis, ‘Sadhguru, I can’t work with this person,
she is so horrible, I can’t do it’ I tell them ‘See in this world, this is the sort of people who exist. like this, like this, like this, like this,
this is the kind of people there are. But if you want to work with ideal people, you must go to heaven and today. But if you think, what you’re doing is very significant, you must learn to work with all these horrible people. This is how the world is. If you think what you’re doing is very significant, you learn to work with all kinds of people. You will see, horrible people will do wonderful things. Yes? But if you want to work with ideal people,
you won’t find any. I haven’t found one yet. (Laughter) There’re all kinds of … mixed bags but (laughs) if you are willing, that you are not yes and no, yes to one, no to another, you’re simply one big yes, you will find a way. Angella Nazarian: Thank you so much. I always say that the resistance to life.. (Applause)

100 thoughts on “Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People

  • Good and bad do exist… They compete and win from time to time. If joy and misery can exist, good and bad do exist. That's why we have law.

  • All sort of gurus produced by India, reason india' s production system is dedicated to industrial production and manufacturing of human only. we cant produce germany like cars, we cant produce silicon chips like usa, we cant produce anything like chine, hence we produce human.

  • From different men, or same, I have dated, i was told: ''The way you walk is so funny! I'm not laughing at you, it's just so noticable''. ''Your hair looks like it's an old lady's hair, you are missing some in the front of your head''. ''Your shoulders are so wide appart''. ''Your butt doesn't bounce when you walk. You walk like you're stiff''. ''You need to see a psychologist''.
    I will become like Sadhguru. I won't be able to get angry and bothered by people.

  • Does Sadhguru means that it's about accepting that other people are just different and we shouldn't let that change our inner self and then we won't get angry or bothered by them?
    I'm asking because in trying to understand something I prefer to simplify it for myself.

  • If i am stressed or i cant sleep i listen to his beautiful voice n it make me feel calm n i sleep in just few minutes… Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • Is that the reason we don't experience hell at work places in India? We go to work with an open mind and accept those around us and above all show respect.

  • You must be knowledgeable but you can't explain things clearly, you go into irrelevant details that make one's attention deviate and your talks are just full of jargons but not of any use🙏

  • I couldn't understand him
    But now wow I'm amazed
    With how he's helped me with my own personal growth on how to be mature and live and let go

  • I've only recently discovered Sadhguru, but I'm so glad that I have. His wise words are a great comfort to me. Thank you Sadhguru.

  • Sadhguru himself got very angry and threaten to a IIT kharag pur student. When she asked a question abt Isha foundation to him.

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  • I'm confused — being a volunteer is also like being a slave, isn't it? If you always say yes then you're trapped by that? If you are always a volunteer in your life always saying yes?

  • There are no good and bad people. If you create a pleasant atmosphere then people are pleasant if you CREATE a unpleasant au
    Atmosphere then people are unpleasant. Simple enough. Do you best drop the rest….bet

  • Guru ji there are the three types of people exists in this world. First, when you happy, they will also happy with you,second, when you angry, they will angry with you,third,you happy or angry, simply they don't care. Now the type third people is rare and they must be hame apke khusi se khusi hai,na apke dukh se dukh hai.just consistent.

  • Saying yes to life, is ignorance to see truth, the wrong and the bad for future. World will be chaos if everyone does that.

  • it takes years for the enlightened one to speak his prophecies . discerning wisdom and levels of understanding . What is good can be bad and vice versa . He has powers yet he can speak with authority on our minds . We are all slaves ,unless we inculcate higher consiousness,and wisdom to know who we really are KNOW THYSELF .We are not meant to get along with everyone. We are all different at different levels of our EVOLVEMENT. .

  • It's difficult I am broke with tears right now I don't I have anyone to share things with…. Neither I have friends only 2 friends I have with whom I can't share my family matters… I feel depressed…

  • If you create a very pleasant atmosphere everybody behaves wonderfully, if you create a unpleasant atmosphere a whole lot of people act nasty. There’s joyful people and nasty people. The moment we think we’re good we’re entitled to destroy the bad humans have different experiences and understanding, anybody if they don’t like you must be had people, I’m not 50% yes to this one I’m 100% yes to life you’re volunteer, my life is about me and how I am, how I am is my choice , I don’t give them the freedom for them to make me happy, angry, if anybody decides what should happen to you isn’t this slavery? Volunteering means you can do whatever is needed, if you think what you doing is very significant you must learn how to work with all kinds of people, if you are willing that you are not yes to one you’re a big yes you’ll find a way

  • Also seeking gratification for all done is a life sat on top of a dunghill.
    So many in society seem to presume that their possessions make them who they are .
    Because of this they become as their possessions, Possessed..🙏

  • Thank you so much
    For the ultimate realization " what happens inside me is 100% in my control ,neither the surrounding nor someone".😊

  • Proof of ignored truth of life what the Sadhguru is telling.
    Proof :: Read the comment below named Deepshikha Saxena👇👇👇👇

  • What's sad is that most people go to work unwillingly therfore they are in hell 24 7. It's hard to find work you truly love doing.

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  • I used to think that good atmosphere makes everyone act good until I moved in with a highly narcissistic person unfortunately they don't value peace the way the average person does

  • Apologies for a Lengthy Download

    1. Ram Sita Divine Union
    The four ashramas are: 
    Brahmacharya (student) 1-21
    Grihastha (householder) 21-54
    Vanaprastha (retired) 54-72
    Sannyasa (renunciate) Beyond 72

    Child Care, Parenting & Education
    1-7 Conditioning
    7-14 Programming
    14-21 Education

    64 Kala of 4 Elements Earth, Water, Fire, Air

    36 Emotions that Reverberates
    Your Soul
    Your Mind &
    Your Body

    12 Zodiac Personalities
    64+36+12 = 112 Meditation

    112 Ways to Meditate (Mahadev)

    Only then would a person man or woman would progress from
    Nimna Purushartha to
    Madhyam Purushartha to
    Uttam Purushartha (Krishna & Arjuna)

    Purushartha Means Character Masculine &

    Prakriti Means Nature (Instinct) Feminine

    Ram & Sita were such a couple who's all 36 Gunas were an exact Match to each other and were perfect to run the project of Collective Conscious Awakening of Praja Ayodhaya for which the Leela of them being sent to VanVaas played where they went for 14 years and pursued Spirituality basically going into Vanaprastha & Sannyasa so they mastered everything and became Yogi and Yogini consisting of Ram, Lakshman & Sita. The only thing needed was to have Sita give birth to Children Luv & Kush in Ayodhaya but post the Ravana kidnapping, War and finally Rescue when Sita was condemned by Praja on her chastity she fumed and raged out of anger and could only see Unconsious and only lower energies in Ayodhaya. She didn't fit for her son's to be born in such a place outraged she left and gave birth to both in Valmiki's Ashram. And when Ram found out about Sita and Luv & Kush and he came rushing towards the Ashram Sita ran towards the Forest hid herself and had a Mahasamadhi before Ram could even get to her.

    We move forward to Krishna Avatar and here while Krishna pursued his Yogic training at Sandipadi Ashram, Ujjain but since Rukmani had none such training they couldn't give birth to their divine love thus when all of Krishna's family died killing each other Krishna was hit by a bow on his ankle and he left his body. While 4 of his Wives took Sati Pratha, They took Mahasamadhi and were cremated by fire while his other 4 wive went to Van to pursue a Mahasamadhi Dharti. Krishna had 8 wives including Rukmani

    Sita had a Dharti Samadhi (Dharti)
    Ram had a Jal Samadhi (Jal)
    Rukmani had an Agni Samadhi (Agni)
    Krishna had a Vayu Samadhi (Vayu)

    Divine Union seems to me a Union of all Divine Masculine & Feminine (Character & Nature) on the theme of Sita Ram Leela or

    Kalki & Padmavati Union

    Note: We always say Sita first and Ram second I learnt that in Ujjain 🥰

    2. Education

    4 Veds + 3 Vidya = 7
    For 3d to 5d transition 4 Veds &
    For 5d to 7d transition 3 Vidya

    3 Vidya
    -Parvati Spirituality
    -Lakshmi Law of Attraction
    -Saraswati Articulate

    4 Veds are Elements
    3 Vidya are Written by 3 Female Yogini

    Parvati Energy (Higher Self)
    Lakshmi Frequency (Soul)
    Saraswati Vibration (Mind)

    3. 7D, 5D, 3D

    7D as Your Higher Self
    6D as You (Soul)
    5D as having Mastery on your 5 Elements

    If we wish to transition from 3D to 5D today it's our duty to put bedrock of Evolution from 5D to 7D in later years may be even aeons later.

    So while to Ascend from 3D to 5D 4 Veds were need were Rig Ved, Yajur Ved, Sama Ved, Atharva Ved,

    For one day may be aeons later when people may pursue a Collective Conscious Awakening from 5D to 7D for which we would need Vidyas from Yoginis on the Mind, Body & Soul

    7 Parvati Paramatma
    6 Lakshmi Atma
    5 Saraswati Akash
    4 Vishnu Vayu
    3 Shakti Agni
    2 Brahma Jal
    1 Shiva Dharti

    4 Veds 4
    3 Vidyas 4+3 = 7


  • Yeah. But I guarantee you there are some really stupid people. People who will even get people killed. To not get pissed off at these people does not mean you are a slave to them.

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